<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>followmenotyourdreams.</title><description>Thoughts, field notes, and lived experience.</description><link>https://followmenotyourdreams-com.netlify.app/</link><item><title>The Mental Model Behind Resilience</title><link>https://followmenotyourdreams-com.netlify.app/posts/mental-model-behind-resilience/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://followmenotyourdreams-com.netlify.app/posts/mental-model-behind-resilience/</guid><description>How outcomes distribute the way they do — and how to build systems that keep you in the center.</description><pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>How to Use the Curve in Real Life</title><link>https://followmenotyourdreams-com.netlify.app/posts/curve-in-real-life/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://followmenotyourdreams-com.netlify.app/posts/curve-in-real-life/</guid><description>Practical ways to rethink decisions, habits, and expectations.</description><pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Building Systems, Not Motivation</title><link>https://followmenotyourdreams-com.netlify.app/posts/building-systems/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://followmenotyourdreams-com.netlify.app/posts/building-systems/</guid><description>Motivation fades. Systems stay. A starting point for building yours.</description><pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>A Small Practice in Paying Attention</title><link>https://followmenotyourdreams-com.netlify.app/posts/paying-attention/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://followmenotyourdreams-com.netlify.app/posts/paying-attention/</guid><description>One thing at a time is sometimes enough.</description><pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>The Long Way Home</title><link>https://followmenotyourdreams-com.netlify.app/posts/the-long-way-home/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://followmenotyourdreams-com.netlify.app/posts/the-long-way-home/</guid><description>A field note on walking without trying to arrive faster.</description><pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Navigating Tough Times – The Gaussian Resilience Curve</title><link>https://followmenotyourdreams-com.netlify.app/posts/navigating-tough-times/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://followmenotyourdreams-com.netlify.app/posts/navigating-tough-times/</guid><description>Life rarely stays at the extremes. A mental model for absorbing difficult clusters, enjoying the upside, and building the capacity to bend instead of snap.</description><pubDate>Sun, 02 Nov 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>